FREEDOM LIFE MINISTRIES INT. with Prince Emma Opanyi: RELATIONSHIPS

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

RELATIONSHIPS

Peniel Rwendeire

THE FOUR BASIC PRINCIPLES OF A SUSTAINABLE RELATIONSHIP

Each of us desires to start a relationship that we feel it can take us some where, one that has value and purpose. One of the greatest learning of my life is that if you want to make a new contribution you have to make a whole new preparation. Many people don’t realise that relationship is all about contributing. Therefore what you contribute is what either breaks or sustains a relationship.

You may be there and at one point in your life there is a couple that you really admire the way they couple live their Christian love life and you also feel oh I wish my marriage to be like that. But you may not know what really makes them to be admired by you.
The good news is that building a sustainable relationship calls for a new mindset, a new tool set (word of God) a new skill set and above all a new habit. It may sound like a challenge and also so complicated but we as Christians need to look to Jesus because he said that I will send you a helper who will teach you everything (John 14:26) So we have the confidence that the holy spirit is our best teacher, counsellor and a friend who can teach us every thing that is important in our lives .
Now lets look at the four principles that sustain a relationship these are not all that build a relationship but they are the basic

Love

Love is a doing word, love is a verb; love is not excitement over some body but appreciation of the person basing on who the way he or she is and a desire to influence if necessary for a positive change. Human beings are made of the body, mind, heart and spirit. Therefore true love focuses on the whole complete human being not just loving one or two parts of somebody.

The mind

Do I love the way you think?
Do I love your ideas and am I happy with them?
Do I love the things that you value and those that take your time?

The heart

Do I love the way you feel about situations?
Do I love the things you are passionate about?
Do I love the things that drive your life?
Do I love your characters?

The body

Do I feel proud of you in public?
Do I love your body?
Am I generally contented with your physical appearance?

The spirit

This looks at your faith
Am I proud of your spiritual life?
Am I ready to face the reality?
Am I ready to make a contribution to your spiritual life?

Trust

This comes from trustworthiness and trustworthiness comes as a result of character and competence and the fruit of all this is wisdom and sound judgement.

Understanding

Understanding is so broad especially when it comes to relationships because it involves understanding your self first before you understand the other partner. Understanding focuses on who and what you are because what you come with in a relationship can either break or build it. It’s a bit challenging when the partner you are relating with is from a different culture or even a foreign land like a European getting married to an African. These are typically from different background and such relationships require thorough understanding of each other. For that reason you can look at issues like;

· Character

Values and interests
What is the source of his/her love

The fruit of understanding is not choosing to do things my way or your way but a third way that is better than either for the two of us. This is the fruit of respecting, valuing and even celebrating one another’s differences. Its about solving problems seizing opportunities and working our differences

An Understanding relationship is a complementary relationship where the strength of one compensates the weaknesses of the other.

Respect

Respect may sound normal and easy to go about but in many times some partners do something that may not reflect the element of respect. When the other partner you are relating with does not feel respected, he or she may end up loosing interest in this relationship. It’s like doing a job that does not give you a sense of self actualisation or self esteem. Respect is reflected in the individual first and then in the other partner therefore respect begins with you. How you talk, what you and how you do what you do in the presence or absence of your partner reflects the degree of respect, even dressing code is considered.

In wrapping up, brethrens let us believe God for divine wisdom and understanding and let us look at the word of God because it’s the best instruction or guiding manual to a Christian the bible looks at all aspects of life and trust me, pray for the will of God to be manifested in our relationship.
By Peniel Rwendeire

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TELLING THE WORLD THE WHOLE STORY OF JESUS CHRIST

Hello welcome to the place of your freedom I strongly believe that your visiting this site will greatly change your life. And at this SITE we believe in the victory and Freedom that our Lord Jesus Christ won for us. In 2002 God gave me an assignment of letting the unreached and hurting world know the whole story why He came. And today i have told that story and i still tell the world and i have seen God answer people's questions. Through the Miracles, signs and wonders people have prooved that Jesus Christ is Alive. Join me in telling this story to the world

Prince Emma Opanyi

Hello welcome, My friends, partners from allover nations i want to let you know that in this year is special and a miracle awaits you. However understanding the purpose why you were created will make you not to seat down this year but to rise up for exploits. last year God connectedour network to Phillipines, Iraq, Indonasia, India, Tanzania, Kenya and Uganda respectively in a great way. All my Kenyan friends this year i am coming get ready to swim in the Holy Ghost. Do you want to have a link with this outreach just log unto our blog: www.experienceyourfreedomtoday.blogspot.com. Big thank you to all our Google and BUZZ Readers who endevour to read our resources. You can also become a partner . Its free. only log onto our blog then go to followers and follow us with Google Friend Connect or follow us by mail. May God richly bless you this year

Over the years, we have seen and heard Pr. Chris preach the true gospel . the gospel that carries life. Last week in one of our letters we recieved a letter from Benjamin through the google reader and google Buzz. And below is the letter: WHY HE IS CALLED THE YOUNGEST RADICAL EVANGELISTIC PREACHER AND WRITER From the records of the few preachers and writers, Mr. Bril Emmanuel Opanyi Born in 1985 is found to be the youngest Radical preacher and writer. Bril is a Kenyan Citizen and also a Ugandan Citizen by Birth. After a divine call of God upon his life in 2001 God greatly begun to use him in the arena of miracle healings. In one of his statements Bril said that one day Napoleon stood up and said' An opportunity will dance with you only if it finds you on the dancing floor.' indicating that all our communities need is not condemning them but showing them the way, Truth and life through the Gospel. Over the seven years of internet ministry Bril Emma has reached over 20million people across the globe. Many are getting saved, transformed and empowered. Young people are turning to the Lord, we have seen Miracles happen through prayers. Bril believes in showing Nations the way to attaining personal deliverance. However, inspite of all God has used Bril to do , He is not a Church Pastor but a minister at Victory Church Of Christ Ministries in Kampala Uganda. Bril Emmanuel is one of the Youngest Evangelistic Preacher and Writer whose features are Christ like. When i look at him i see the likeness of Pr. Chris Oyakilome of Nigeria in him. The day he visited our ministry. The message he shared was worth listening to. In a nutshell, He is a man sent by God to do His work. I want to encourage you who is reading this to visit Bril Emanuel's blog you will like it www.experienceyourfreedomtoday.blogspot.com. With his likeness our Generation is safe. God bless you all Benjamin in Malaysia . from the letter we have also lived to tesfy this in the life of our own Bril Emmanuel Written by Janet Jack - Site Admin

OUR GREAT COMMISSION

And Jesus said:
Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

Not forgetting the main cause that brought Jesus which is stated in John 3:16-17

God has called us and entrusted us with His message of Love and Healing to the Hurting World. We believe in the Trinity and we also believe in the seconding coming of Jesus Christ.
We have seen God again and again proof Himself true to His word. For He said i will be with you.

We are in the end times when Revival is hitting the world. Many are turning to God. Miraculous Healing are occurring, and the word is become life to men both young and old.

OUR BELIEFS ABOUT PRAYERS

We believe that prayer is one of the most potent weapons available to a believer.
We believe that God is still in the business of answering prayers and that through fervent and travailing prayers, God could perform the uncommon and the unbelievable.
We believe that every prayer is to be made to the Father, through the name of His dear Son Jesus Christ as directed and empowered by the Holy Spirit.

TOGETHER WITH LOVE AND CONCERN WE CAN STOP CHILD LABOUR AND ABUSE**** Report Child Abuse.

(CNN) -- As many as 225,000 children in Haiti live and work as unpaid domestic servants, the first study to closely examine the issue concluded. The existence of these arrangements are not new, but the scope is larger than previously thought, a new study by the Pan American Development Foundation found. The foundation conducted the largest field survey of human rights violations in Haiti. Known as restaveks, these extremely poor children are sent by their families to other homes. "In principle, parental placement of a restavek child involves turning over child-rearing responsibility to another household in exchange for the child's unpaid domestic service," the study says. Helping Haiti's child slaves . The majority, two-thirds, of restaveks are female, and all are prone to abuse and rape by their host families, the study says. The movement of the children is from poor homes to less poor homes, sometimes within the same family. In addition to boarding, families often send their children to become restaveks because of schooling opportunities in their new homes. To determine how widespread this practice is, the foundation conducted 1,458 door-to-door surveys in some of the more troubled neighborhoods in Haiti, the poorest nation in the Western Hemisphere. According to the U.N. Office for the Special Envoy for Haiti, unemployment reaches 70 percent nationally and 78 percent of Haitians live on less than $2 a day. Given the dire economic condition, child trafficking and organized violence has been a problem in Haiti. The study's aim was to answer the question: "What is the scale of the victimization?" What researchers found was that 22 percent of children surveyed were living away from home, and that 30 percent of households had restavek children. Using census projections for 2010, the study extrapolated that as many as 225,000 children in Haiti's urban areas could be living as restaveks. The recruitment of such children is "intimately linked" with poverty, said the study, which recommended that the government and foreign aid be used in poverty alleviation programs and more widely available education services, especially in rural areas. The placement of restavek children has traditionally been a movement from rural Haiti to urban areas. Another key find to the study is that they are increasingly coming from other urban areas, the study found. In many cases, children are placed in homes of relatives, but kinship ties did not guarantee better treatment, according to the study. Due to an increase in child Labour in Africa, BRILEMMA WORLD FOUNDATION come up and has been in operation since 2004 with the Aim of fighting Child Abuse in Africa.

THE NEEDY TOO ARE PEOPLE HELP THEM OUT OF THAT NEED FOR THEY ARE TOMORROWS FUTURE

Thursday, August 30, 2007. Follow the Pictures Closely, Everyday, in Africa, Sudan, one of the poorest countries in the world. The war that happens there spoils lives-kills children. People, I want you to think this is you or even one of your family member or even your only Child who is at the climax of such a more worst condition would you still sit and relax?-look at the pictures-this is Africa! Open your eyes, wide, what do you see? Starving kids, mal-nutrited children, dying dreams? These pictures are not meant to intimidate you, or make you feel bad. They are just meant to show you the situation as it is. THESE KIDS NEEDS HELP! Digg this story, make it popular!!! Looking back in Northern Uganda for the last 15years Children and helpless people had to suffer the rough torture from the LRA Rebels. Today many children are hurt due to the rap, torture, forced labour and unwanted marriages that have caused unwanted pregnancies. Looking at all that has happened and that is still happening in Africa it really shows that its time for Africa to fall back into the hands of Jesus Christ so that Africa can be redeemed from evil powers holding it. Remember every human problem has a divine solution and that’s Jesus. In 2005, God gave me a burden of helping young children, youths and suffering mothers. And in the very year I began up YOUR DAILY VICTORY INTERNET OUTREACH in conjunction with BRILEMMA WORLD FOUNDATION to enable me and the entire team to reach the Hurting world (to those echoing voices of HELP! HELP! HELP1). At a single moment in Africa I can’t withstand the alarm of the starving, oppressed, overworked, raped and violated children coming into my ears. Let’s rise up and do something. NOTE: we are not here to make money we are here to HELP1 Do you feel the same like we do then join us and help meet the needs of our own people. MY PLEA To all well wishers, Donors Organizations and individual who would like to help reach the Hurting World and the un- reached suffering population please we do welcome your support. BRILEMMA WORLD FOUNDATION welcomes you greatly.

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Tuesday, March 16, 2010

RELATIONSHIPS

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