FREEDOM LIFE MINISTRIES INT. with Prince Emma Opanyi: I Thought We Were in Love

Monday, May 14, 2012

I Thought We Were in Love

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I Thought We Were in Love
We planned to be together forever. I was sure that made sex OK.

In life today especially in our colleges/ high schools and above all hostels a lot nasty things go on but with less concern. In this life testimony that is a true life story I want to encourage the youths out there to read it and know why you shouldn’t hurry for teenage sex. Remember there is a great life a head of you but you can short circuit that good and great life that is a head of you just by a single click of sex.

I believe this message below will inspire and sharpen you up for something greater.

I started dating John in high school. It was the first serious relationship either of us had ever had, and we were absolutely crazy about one another. We decided pretty early on that we were made for each other, and everyone in our small town agreed. They all thought we'd end up getting married and living happily ever after. I thought so too.

John* and I had our lives planned out. After high school we'd go to the same college. Then as soon as we graduated, we'd get married. We knew what kind of house we'd live in and the cars we'd drive. We even decided how many kids we'd have and what we'd name them. Both of us were convinced that nothing could ever come between us.

That's how we justified our physical relationship. When we started having sex, we figured it was OK since we knew we would marry each other eventually. When we went away to college, we used the same reasoning to justify our living together.

Deep down I knew what we were doing was wrong. I could see how far we'd drifted from the habits we'd practiced in the beginning. When we first started dating, we made a big deal about making sure God was the center of our relationship. We went to church together and encouraged one another to read the Bible and pray daily. But by the time we got to college, we had pretty much stopped going to church. We never opened the Bible, and we only prayed when there was a crisis. I told myself everything would change as soon as we got married.

Then came Jessica. I had met her before and knew John studied with her occasionally, but I never thought much about it. I could hardly believe it when he told me there was more than studying going on between them. He said his love for me had "faded" and that we had no future. Period. No discussion. Just like that, it was over.

All the dreams we had shared were shattered. He expected me to just forget about him, about the plans we'd made and the six years we'd spent together. I was shocked. I felt numb and confused. I walked through the next few weeks in a zombie state, trying to make sense of what had happened. I thought I knew John. I thought I could trust him.

That time in my life was the deepest and darkest valley I have ever known. It was also, strangely enough, a time of great hope. I say that because in the midst of my despair, Jesus found me. Until then, I had never known what it meant to need him. I had never felt so empty and broken, so hurt and alone. When I cried out to God, he came and wrapped his arms around me.

I'm forever grateful for God's unbelievable grace. Through it, he continues to heal me. But even so, I still bear the scar of a deep wound. I heard someone compare premarital sex to pieces of paper being glued together and pulled apart. I can't think of a better way to describe it. John and I were joined together like that. When the relationship ended, we were ripped apart, and I left part of myself with him that I can never get back. I'm talking about more than my virginity. I was joined to him emotionally and spiritually, too.

I'm still struggling with guilt for all I gave away. I don't even really want to date. I'm partly afraid of the rejection I might experience when I tell a guy about my past, but more than that I feel like it wouldn't be fair to him, especially if he's saved himself for marriage. It breaks my heart to know I can't undo the past.

I tell my story because I want to keep others from making the same mistake. I'm a living testimony of how unexpected nightmares can come true. Please believe me: the pain is real, and it's not worth it.

* All names in this story, including the author's, have been changed.

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TELLING THE WORLD THE WHOLE STORY OF JESUS CHRIST

Hello welcome to the place of your freedom I strongly believe that your visiting this site will greatly change your life. And at this SITE we believe in the victory and Freedom that our Lord Jesus Christ won for us. In 2002 God gave me an assignment of letting the unreached and hurting world know the whole story why He came. And today i have told that story and i still tell the world and i have seen God answer people's questions. Through the Miracles, signs and wonders people have prooved that Jesus Christ is Alive. Join me in telling this story to the world

Prince Emma Opanyi

Hello welcome, My friends, partners from allover nations i want to let you know that in this year is special and a miracle awaits you. However understanding the purpose why you were created will make you not to seat down this year but to rise up for exploits. last year God connectedour network to Phillipines, Iraq, Indonasia, India, Tanzania, Kenya and Uganda respectively in a great way. All my Kenyan friends this year i am coming get ready to swim in the Holy Ghost. Do you want to have a link with this outreach just log unto our blog: www.experienceyourfreedomtoday.blogspot.com. Big thank you to all our Google and BUZZ Readers who endevour to read our resources. You can also become a partner . Its free. only log onto our blog then go to followers and follow us with Google Friend Connect or follow us by mail. May God richly bless you this year

Over the years, we have seen and heard Pr. Chris preach the true gospel . the gospel that carries life. Last week in one of our letters we recieved a letter from Benjamin through the google reader and google Buzz. And below is the letter: WHY HE IS CALLED THE YOUNGEST RADICAL EVANGELISTIC PREACHER AND WRITER From the records of the few preachers and writers, Mr. Bril Emmanuel Opanyi Born in 1985 is found to be the youngest Radical preacher and writer. Bril is a Kenyan Citizen and also a Ugandan Citizen by Birth. After a divine call of God upon his life in 2001 God greatly begun to use him in the arena of miracle healings. In one of his statements Bril said that one day Napoleon stood up and said' An opportunity will dance with you only if it finds you on the dancing floor.' indicating that all our communities need is not condemning them but showing them the way, Truth and life through the Gospel. Over the seven years of internet ministry Bril Emma has reached over 20million people across the globe. Many are getting saved, transformed and empowered. Young people are turning to the Lord, we have seen Miracles happen through prayers. Bril believes in showing Nations the way to attaining personal deliverance. However, inspite of all God has used Bril to do , He is not a Church Pastor but a minister at Victory Church Of Christ Ministries in Kampala Uganda. Bril Emmanuel is one of the Youngest Evangelistic Preacher and Writer whose features are Christ like. When i look at him i see the likeness of Pr. Chris Oyakilome of Nigeria in him. The day he visited our ministry. The message he shared was worth listening to. In a nutshell, He is a man sent by God to do His work. I want to encourage you who is reading this to visit Bril Emanuel's blog you will like it www.experienceyourfreedomtoday.blogspot.com. With his likeness our Generation is safe. God bless you all Benjamin in Malaysia . from the letter we have also lived to tesfy this in the life of our own Bril Emmanuel Written by Janet Jack - Site Admin

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And Jesus said:
Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

Not forgetting the main cause that brought Jesus which is stated in John 3:16-17

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We have seen God again and again proof Himself true to His word. For He said i will be with you.

We are in the end times when Revival is hitting the world. Many are turning to God. Miraculous Healing are occurring, and the word is become life to men both young and old.

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We believe that prayer is one of the most potent weapons available to a believer.
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TOGETHER WITH LOVE AND CONCERN WE CAN STOP CHILD LABOUR AND ABUSE**** Report Child Abuse.

(CNN) -- As many as 225,000 children in Haiti live and work as unpaid domestic servants, the first study to closely examine the issue concluded. The existence of these arrangements are not new, but the scope is larger than previously thought, a new study by the Pan American Development Foundation found. The foundation conducted the largest field survey of human rights violations in Haiti. Known as restaveks, these extremely poor children are sent by their families to other homes. "In principle, parental placement of a restavek child involves turning over child-rearing responsibility to another household in exchange for the child's unpaid domestic service," the study says. Helping Haiti's child slaves . The majority, two-thirds, of restaveks are female, and all are prone to abuse and rape by their host families, the study says. The movement of the children is from poor homes to less poor homes, sometimes within the same family. In addition to boarding, families often send their children to become restaveks because of schooling opportunities in their new homes. To determine how widespread this practice is, the foundation conducted 1,458 door-to-door surveys in some of the more troubled neighborhoods in Haiti, the poorest nation in the Western Hemisphere. According to the U.N. Office for the Special Envoy for Haiti, unemployment reaches 70 percent nationally and 78 percent of Haitians live on less than $2 a day. Given the dire economic condition, child trafficking and organized violence has been a problem in Haiti. The study's aim was to answer the question: "What is the scale of the victimization?" What researchers found was that 22 percent of children surveyed were living away from home, and that 30 percent of households had restavek children. Using census projections for 2010, the study extrapolated that as many as 225,000 children in Haiti's urban areas could be living as restaveks. The recruitment of such children is "intimately linked" with poverty, said the study, which recommended that the government and foreign aid be used in poverty alleviation programs and more widely available education services, especially in rural areas. The placement of restavek children has traditionally been a movement from rural Haiti to urban areas. Another key find to the study is that they are increasingly coming from other urban areas, the study found. In many cases, children are placed in homes of relatives, but kinship ties did not guarantee better treatment, according to the study. Due to an increase in child Labour in Africa, BRILEMMA WORLD FOUNDATION come up and has been in operation since 2004 with the Aim of fighting Child Abuse in Africa.

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Thursday, August 30, 2007. Follow the Pictures Closely, Everyday, in Africa, Sudan, one of the poorest countries in the world. The war that happens there spoils lives-kills children. People, I want you to think this is you or even one of your family member or even your only Child who is at the climax of such a more worst condition would you still sit and relax?-look at the pictures-this is Africa! Open your eyes, wide, what do you see? Starving kids, mal-nutrited children, dying dreams? These pictures are not meant to intimidate you, or make you feel bad. They are just meant to show you the situation as it is. THESE KIDS NEEDS HELP! Digg this story, make it popular!!! Looking back in Northern Uganda for the last 15years Children and helpless people had to suffer the rough torture from the LRA Rebels. Today many children are hurt due to the rap, torture, forced labour and unwanted marriages that have caused unwanted pregnancies. Looking at all that has happened and that is still happening in Africa it really shows that its time for Africa to fall back into the hands of Jesus Christ so that Africa can be redeemed from evil powers holding it. Remember every human problem has a divine solution and that’s Jesus. In 2005, God gave me a burden of helping young children, youths and suffering mothers. And in the very year I began up YOUR DAILY VICTORY INTERNET OUTREACH in conjunction with BRILEMMA WORLD FOUNDATION to enable me and the entire team to reach the Hurting world (to those echoing voices of HELP! HELP! HELP1). At a single moment in Africa I can’t withstand the alarm of the starving, oppressed, overworked, raped and violated children coming into my ears. Let’s rise up and do something. NOTE: we are not here to make money we are here to HELP1 Do you feel the same like we do then join us and help meet the needs of our own people. MY PLEA To all well wishers, Donors Organizations and individual who would like to help reach the Hurting World and the un- reached suffering population please we do welcome your support. BRILEMMA WORLD FOUNDATION welcomes you greatly.

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Monday, May 14, 2012

I Thought We Were in Love

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